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Posted on February 26, 2018 2:58 am
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LuSaNa
LuSaNa
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Girl Drama
I have five girls in my after care program that can't seem to get along. I have split them into different groups and they always seem to mess with each other. All the girls have been talked to by the principal about bullying and their parents were involved but they continue to bother each other and say rude comments. I don't know what to do next.
 
     
     
 
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Posted February 26, 2018 3:17 am

TaTaBy
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When you say that you separated these girls into different groups do you mean that you moved them far from each other? Just because they are in different groups does not mean they will not come into contact with each other. I think you should try to make sure that they do not go near each other, and if they do then you need to set out some type of consequence for them. If they say something rude maybe they will lose playing with their favorite toy or they cant use their phone. You could also try to figure out the root of the problem. Maybe pull each one aside individually and ask them what the problem is.
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PeMuQa
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I agree. Applying consequences to the girls may be the only way to get them to stop, or at least get one or two to do so. It may be necessary to sit the girls down for mediation with a councilor so that they can understand what they should be doing instaed.
  Posted on: February 26, 2018 3:25 am

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Solution 2
Posted February 26, 2018 4:21 am

qyGaQa
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If the principal, parents, and everybody has been involved in this process, then the only thing that you can do is continue to document the behavior and treat it accordingly when it occurs. If they keep doing it and going against the rules, they have to be punished accordingly.
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equXuh
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Try to find the cause of the problem. Also, maybe try understand both sides of the students and find a way for both students to see the other side of the students. I'd hope if they understand each other, then maybe the behavior will cease.
  Posted on: February 26, 2018 4:27 am

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Solution 3
Posted February 26, 2018 4:48 am

veXyge
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Never hurts to call in support from a higher authority.
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